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Question On Lengthy Repair Work

We have received a question on how to deal with repair work that has become more lengthy than originally promised. Frustrating as it can be, here are a few tips to see if you can speed up the process without causing any unnecessary friction.

“My mechanic in California has had my car for over 2 years for a refurbishment/restoration. He rebuilt the engine a year and a half ago (it’s still on an engine hoist), but since paying him last year for all work to be performed he’s done nearly nothing to the car. Every month that I visit him he comes up with some excuse as to why there’s been no progress and then pushes out the completion date another six to eight weeks. I no longer believe that my car is a real priority nor do I believe the car will be completed in the foreseeable future.

How can I get him to complete the car as agreed to on the invoice and not anger him so as to compromise the work he has verbally guaranteed? “

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How Not To Lose Yourself In Your Relationship

2 friends 150x150  How Not To Lose Yourself In Your RelationshipIf you feel like you’ve lost touch with the woman you once were, then you need to step back and take a look at what’s really going on in your relationship.

Ironically, the very act of falling in love in the first place feels like one is losing oneself in the romance. At the best of times, this feeling is experienced by both partners. But generally speaking, it tends to be sustained throughout the relationship to a greater extent with women. Continue »

How To Be Romantic

iStock 000011508010XSmall 150x150 How To Be Romantic There’s something about a man in uniform that get’s a woman’s attention. I first noticed it when I came home on leave for the first time and attended a community dance. Suddenly I had the eyes of so many beautiful women on me. It kind of scared me at first, because they had barely noticed me before. But I did manage to enjoy the attention, for sure.

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That’s when I first saw my wife, Gertie, the most beautiful woman in the dance hall. Well, wouldn’t you know it, she practically ignored me. I was the one who had to win her heart. (I later found out that she did notice, but was determined not to inflate my ego any further.) Continue »